Ah its okay i figured it out myself
Im so dumb i noticed my monitor is DVI-D
that guy was DVI-I
I would need a conversion box to even consider using a vga to dvi-d
So now ive just done this
Ima buy a HDMI to DVI D cable
That should work right? if its a 360 ill need the VGA one anyhow for the sound adapters attached to it, since the other one broke
So yea ima just buy the hdmi to dvi -d close thanks btw for the reply.