Guest /u/SquirrelUnicorn5650 Posted November 15, 2024 Posted November 15, 2024 I have an Iphone SE. I was also in a abusive relationship for about 4 years in which physical, psychological and sexual abuse occurred, I left in christmas 2024 and got with a new boyfriend. In about april 2024 my current boyfriend asked me if i had NSFW pics and asked me to delete all pics of NSFW pics of my ex. Ok since I have a like problem with hoarding unnecessary pics of everything and anything like screen shots i had like 30 000 pics that I swifted through from way back in 2021. I looked at each pics but didnt have time to delete the unnecessary pics but took care of deleting all NSFW pics of my ex. It was very hard to even look at since this guy was sexualy abusing me for so long and i didnt particulary wanted to look at him like that ever again. I would have prefered to just never look at it ever again. Since I have so much junk pictures I didnt have place for stocking in my phone and my icloud was also full (the one about 1$/month with 50 go i think) so since i have a lot of new memories with my bf i wanted those pics to be saved and upgraded to 3-4$ icloud for 200 Go in October 29. Yesterday my current boyfriend took a look on phone and found NSFW pics of my ex on my phone but I am SURE i deleted them all in april and I remember even deleted them from the deleted photos (recently deleted file) because i was not willing to wait 30 days to be officially deleted. So deleted twice those things. When bf showed me i saw only one and thought well maybe while i swifted through all 30 000 pics i had i maybe forgot one and was like really you're mad that i forgot one?! But then I went through it on my own and saw about 15 NSFW pics of my ex, sometimes like 6 in a row that I COULD'T HAVE MISSED while I was deleting in april!!! I'm categoricaly know all those WHERE DELETED and then deleted from the recently deleted files. So there was no way that a couple months from that that i see them again YET here they are and i know for a fact i didn't try to recuperate all this, i didn't switch phones and redownloaded, i didn't mess with all that. But i thought that was a bug in icloud why didnt it deleted it in icloud if i did on my phone? Because they were already there before on icloud? And then when i switch from 50 Go to 200 Go in october was it that why it came back in my phone? I'm in a moment when i need to reconstruct myself after that abuse notably sexual abuse. And then THIS happen to me. I stopped working with a paper of a doctor for taking care of my declining mental health at the moment and those dark thoughts before it becomes too much. Let me say this is not really helping. What can I do to make a complaint to Apple. I saw they had a bug with the version IOS 17.5.1 or 3 and I found that this bug was making reappear deleted photos and ppl questionned the breach of security/confidentiality from Apple, saw that was really rare and occured to a small portion of ppl and seem like half legit and half legit excuses from Apple. But the thing is i just saw that i had 17.4.1 (21E236) version. Apple seem to say it is not icloud and that it was an IOS bug from 17.5 version, i'm close to it but I never downloaded that specific version. WILL PPL EVEN BELIEVE ME?! Bf definetly don't and at his eyes i deliberatly kept those NSFW pics of my ex and he thinks i maybe look at them!!!! I'm in such trouble it is very hard for me to be this not believable/seen as not trustworthy/seem like i want to see and keep my abuser pics. This is so incredible and weird. Will Apple say shitty excuses to not be in trouble? Will they believe me? WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?!?!????????????????!.... TLDR: bf checked in my phone and found NSFW pics of my ex that I deleted completely months ago. submitted by /u/SquirrelUnicorn5650 [link] [comments]
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